I recently received a text from the EUX(emotional unavailable ex) wanting to know what happened to us being at least friends. Friends? How could I be this man's "friend"?
The problem with these emotional unavailable men (especially) is that they just don't get it. They are so preoccupied with themselves that they don't see the things they are doing. Dealing with these types of people are very difficult and can harm your self esteem. You start to question maybe it was you all along wanting to much. But after sorting through every thing that went on, you realize that it's not you, it's was them.
Here are some ways in which emotionally unavailable people act:
~Distant-can't connect on a emotionally level
~Always busy, sick or tired to spend quality time with you
~Cannot commit to the relationship
~They ignore request and don't try to make the relationship work
~Watch sports or read alot as it may interfere with then spending time with you
~Never follow through with promises
~Will be there for anyone else, but the person that he/she is in the relationship with
~Feels like everybody needs him/her
~Never introduces you to his/her family or friends
~Very critical/judgemental of everyone else
~Surface talk-never gets deep in a meaningful conversation
So, why would I be this man's friend when, as a friend, these qualities are still bad. No since of explaining, he still just won't get it. Be friends, I think NOT!!!
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